Biting off More Than I can Chew.

Biting off More Than I can Chew.

I’ve gone WAY too long between posts so here I am admitting that maybe just maybe starting a Blog is a little tougher than I thought.

Being a stay at home mom sounds like you should have SO much free time. But let me tell you. Somehow magically the little minions suck your time right away from you. This is definitely not a post to complain about my kiddos, they are my everything. But with all the side ventures I am trying to accomplish I have discovered that sitting down and writing out my thoughts takes more time than expected.

We have been extra busy lately with selling, buying and moving into a new home. We are currently living in our travel trailer on my parents property while we wait for the new house to close and I have discovered this new found life simplicity. I don’t have a house to clean, my mom and my sister are typically close by to help with the babies. Packing a limited amount of clothing has lead to less laundry and so on and so forth. But even with settling into this new routine I am still having a hard time setting any time aside to blog/journal.

So here I am admitting that maybe starting a blog was not my best idea. I want to keep a journal of life and memories and feelings as I go but cannot seem to carve out the needed time to do so and by the time I sit down with a moment the feeling and the thoughts are gone. So…. any tips on how to find/make the time to do this would be very appreciated, or maybe I should just come to terms with the fact that this just isn’t my cup of tea and move onto the next great idea.

Top 9 must have Baby Items for Twin Parents

Top 9 must have Baby Items for Twin Parents

Since having the twins I have been asked multiple times what are my must have baby items. So I decided to make a list for all of you wanting to know the answer to this question. We definitely went all out on baby items this time around some helped a ton and others not so much. So here we go, in no particular order.

  1. Baby Brezza (aka bottle maker) I know a lot of you reading this will choose to breast feed so this item would be useless for you. But for us mamas that decided to formula feed this item is a must have, with Twins we make about 8 bottles a day that’s 56 a week! This machine is like a coffee Keurig for bottles. Perfect temperature, and exact mixture of formula and water and you don’t have the huge mess that comes with mixing a bottle up normally.
  2. Twin Z Nursing Pillow. I know I said before I didn’t nurse but we still use/used this pillow a ton. We used it to set sleeping babies, to prop bottles and feed, now we are using it to help the girls sit up, this item has definitely been a staple baby item in our home.
  3. TWO good swings. We started out with 1 traditional swing and 1 Mamaroo, when the babies first came home from the hospital they didn’t seem to have a preference of one or the other. But as time progressed they both wanted to be in the traditional swing. This is definitely a kid by kid basis so it is hard to prep ahead of time not knowing what preference they will have but we ended up reselling the Mamaroo and getting another traditional swing. Our girls loved the swings, definitely lifesavers during the day giving us the ability to lay babies down.
  4. Dock-A-Tot the girls loved their Dock-A-Tots, they slept great in them also they are easy to take with you places when you travel and want a place the babies are used to sleeping in.
  5. Good swaddle/wraps we found that the Swaddle Me original Swaddles worked best for us, I definitely contribute the girls sleeping through the night at 2 months old to these swaddles. However I know this varies by child as my first baby didn’t want anything to do with being swaddled. The twins slept with a swaddle until they were 6 months old.
  6. Easy to use double stroller that carries two infant car seats. We purchased the Graco DuoGlider Double Stroller. This one has worked really well for us.
  7. Good sound machine with a nightlight. We have one positioned between the girls that helps during the night if one wakes up.
  8. Baby Thermometer you will be taking baby temperates often. I did a lot of research to find a good one before deciding on which one we would purchase, but you definitely want one with accurate readings.
  9. Bumbo Seats with treys. The girls are in that in between stage where they aren’t quite ready for high chairs but still want to sit up and be a part of things. I use the bumbos for feeding time, play time, and just time when you want to set the babies down and still keep them close to you.

So that is it for my list of must haves. Here are a couple of honorable mentions. These are items we purchased but we did not use like I had hoped or expected

  • Owlet baby monitors (I really don’t know why but we just did not use these like I had expected us to)
  • Halo Bassinet (was only used for less then 2 months and then babies went in their own room in their cribs)
  • Joovy Room2 Playyard with Twin Nursery Center (used the twin nursery center for about 2 months and haven’t used since, however I plan on bringing this back out when the babies become mobile so we can contain them for play time)
9 Tips for Surviving the 1st 6 months with Twins

9 Tips for Surviving the 1st 6 months with Twins

Well we are well into the 5th month of having our twin girls at home so I thought I would make a list for you all on how we have survived.

  1. SCHEDULE. SCHEDULE. SCHEDULE. Now let me dive into this topic for a minute. I sat with my husband just days before the twins were born reading this VERY same recommendation and I turned to him and said “I don’t think I can do a schedule babe, it just doesn’t fit our lifestyle” well guess what? Your lifestyle is about to change. With my first child we didn’t have a schedule at all, but I never felt like we NEEDED a schedule. Twins are an entirely different beast than a singleton. A schedule allows sleep, it allows you to have time to do laundry and wash bottles and all the things that you can’t do if you are constantly holding, feeding, and entertaining newborns. I was extremely lucky that my girls put themselves on a schedule. Eating about every 4 hours. By 2 months they were sleeping through the night and in their own cribs. Believe me, a schedule is a must!
  2. REMEMBER FED IS BEST! I know the struggle between choosing to breast feed versus bottle feed. I wanted that connection with my babies I wanted them to get all the nutrients from breast milk but I also knew how much I struggled with my first daughter to breast feed. I knew these babies were going to be born early and that gaining weight was so very important. I knew it was hard to track the amount of food babies are eating when breastfeeding I KNEW I was going to need help. I also knew that my mental health was important and stressing over breastfeeding was not going to do anyone any good so I decided from day one these babies would be bottle fed. The point I am trying to make is do what is BEST for you and your babies. If you produce great and love breastfeeding awesome! If you struggle and don’t enjoy it, there is NO SHAME in bottle feeding, or pumping or whatever combination works for you.
  3. STOCK UP ON DIAPERS! We go through an average of 10 diapers a day that’s 70 a week and roughly 280 a month! If you have a baby shower do a diaper raffle. Get as many as you can in all sizes. I luckily have only had to buy like 4 boxes of diapers at this point because we had so many given to us before babies were born.
  4. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ANY STATE OR FEDERAL PROGRAMS. WIC has been my savior. Since we chose not to breast feed we go through $$$ of formula. What I didn’t know before I had my first baby is that you can qualify for WIC even with relatively high income. My girls take special formula and if I had to pay for it we would be look at over $700 a month in formula. These programs are here for a reason use them.
  5. LET FAMILY AND FRIENDS HELP. I am terrible at asking for help. I know I can do it all by myself but why? There are days when I really need/want to get out of the house it’s ok to ask for someone to come watch the girls while I run errands. (Now that my husband is back at work)
  6. TAKE ME TIME. This goes along with asking family and friends for help. A big part of maintaining my mental sanity comes with getting out of the house and away from kiddos some. My escape has been 3 mornings a week going to the gym while my Grandma gets to spend time with the girls. Do this for yourself however you can!
  7. WORK TOGETHER. I chose to bottle feed this being one reason why. I was also very lucky that my husband had 4 months off with me after the babies were born. This made it much easier to keep the twins on a schedule we could feed both babies at the same time, put them to sleep at the same time etc. Having two babies and two bodies to take care of these babies makes a huge difference. Also it is important to know the signs that your spouse needs a break. Working together allows breaks for sanity.
  8. DO YOUR RESEARCH ON MUST HAVE ITEMS. I will shortly be writing another blog post with my top items for making your life easier with twins. But I cannot stress this enough. There are items that have been complete lifesavers that I NEVER would have purchased if I had only one baby. Use those long months while you are pregnant to research must have baby items.
  9. TAKE A STEP BACK AND ENJOY THE LITTLE THINGS. These babies grow and change so quickly, time is a thief. It is so easy to get caught up in the mundane tasks of life that come with babies, bottle washing, diaper changing, sleep deprivation. But while all this is going on you have two beautiful miracles growing right in front of your eyes. Take time to hold those babies, cherish their first smile, laugh, and steps, because one day you would give anything to have this crazy time back.
A bit on why I’m here…

A bit on why I’m here…

I have had A LOT on my mind lately and decided that Facebook was not the best avenue for sharing sooooo welcome to my blog.

I will be using this blog to share about the ongoings of my everyday life from the struggles , the tears, to the laughter and love.

I will explore topics such as my transition from being a full time working mother of one to a stay at home mommy of three, my postpartum recovery, the daily life with twins, and being a girl mom.

Please leave me feedback on what you would like to hear about and most of all ENJOY! ☺️